Possible Door Opener # 3 - Are you intentionally Revictimizing the Grieving?
Wanting to warn the living while honoring the dead...an invitation to join in on the action!
My heart goes out to all who had to deal with the passing of loved ones since the start of the declared pandemic. In my own life BC - Before Covid, I have watched my own loved ones progress through various end of life stages, at home, in nursing homes, and hospital care settings - dreading each inevitable next step and keenly aware of the importance of all manner of staff for their everyday care along the way. So, as the various COVID-19 related restrictions on visitation plus mask & vax mandates rolled out - the many care home staff members I knew and cherished were never far from my thoughts and prayers. Likewise, the many residents of my mothers’ nursing home, the remaining elderly folks in my circle and the friends and contacts who themselves were dealing with the needs of their own dying loved ones within this puzzling and alienating “New Normal.”
The unbearable hell of being separated from the very people who provide an elderly person with the most joy and vice versa weighed heavily on my mind as I frantically worked to try to ascertain on exactly WHOSE evidence these various draconian policies were based. (My July 9 posts called The Grand Quest outline this in more detail.)
For over two years, I have been walking on eggshells around those with COVID related grief, biting my tongue and refraining from speaking out… about all the things that coulda, shoulda been different… things that coulda, shoulda been done better if early treatment for COVID had been allowed as was the case in many other countries less beholden to BigPharma (https://c19early.com/). There is much I could have said but did not, because I recognized that those all caught up with eldercare and grief on top of a fulltime life don’t have the bandwidth to even hear of any shoulda, coulda. (Neither would I if I were still in that situation.) I was especially aware that given there is little the overstretched people can do to change the BIG PICTURE, telling them about these things would be seen as unhelpful and cruel. This applies whether or not people in question personally had COVID or suffered in other ways, due to delays in getting cancer screening, surgeries and everything else.
It is not just because of some naïve and uniformed wishful thinking that I reference the fact that had the early treatment route been followed, most Covid patients would NEVER HAVE MADE IT TO HOSPITAL - they would have stayed at home, following a course of medication that stops the virus from replicating within the linings of the respiratory system before it is even carried to the other body systems where much of the ensuing harm later happens. Family members would also have been treated preventatively and would then not have been at risk of picking up or transmitting something that was not talking hold in their bodies. And tada!! there would have been no need for “flattening the curve,” for lockdowns and ventilators, for vaccine products, mandates, etc. These statements are grounded in published, peer-reviewed science. I am only echoing what many well regarded experts have ascertained - experts who, however, have been so heavily censored that instead of being household names, they have been recast as pariahs. The process is analogous to pulling weeds before they go to seed to prevent an infestation of weeds in the garden later on. The effect of some of the early antivirals, like ivermectin for example, is to transform certain cell surfaces from Velcro to Teflon, so that incoming SARS-CoV-2 virus slides through, not getting much of a foothold, ergo, not going to seed and producing more virus to invade more spaces within the body.
I realize that mourners everywhere and at every time need to place the story of their loved one’s birth, life and death within a certain context. We have a need to tell and retell the stories of our loved ones as part of making sense for ourselves of their passing. For a number of years after their departure, it is the experiences of the final months, weeks and days that naturally loom large in our memories, because they generally are closely intertwined with trauma and loss. When we think we have “set the matter to rest” we believe we can “move on” and get on with our lives. But the scars inside our mourning soul heal on their own schedule.
And along comes someone like me who seems hellbent on ripping off the scabs by sharing information that has disturbing implications for our understanding of the context we have been carefully integrating into our grief.
In my father’s final weeks on this earth, I became aware of something that coulda, shoulda been done differently in his care, something that could have lengthened his lifespan. As I was processing this, and mentioned to him what I could possibly still try to do based on this new knowledge, he gave me two pieces of advice:
—> What’s done is done. What has happened happened. Don’t rile yourself up for what we can no longer change. I knew I needed to die sometime. It might as well be now.
AND
—> Let the dead bury their dead, keep your focus on the living.
I am trusting that this latter statement would be a sentiment shared by many whom we have laid to rest, that if we could hear them speak, they would be telling us that our focus needs to be on our young people, on those still living. And yes, I am asking us all to temporarily suspend any grieving process that may still be underway while we stop this unrelenting threat - in the hopes that we don’t have many more NEW people to grieve in the coming weeks and months.
The key question is “Can we leave the context of those whom we have laid to rest undisturbed while turning toward a different track?”
And the answer is “We have to.”
Of course for the first weeks and months, everyone was working with the best evidence they had at the time, supporting the idea of vaccination, including many of those scientists and doctors who have now started issuing warnings moving forward. These included some of the biggest international voices critical of government COVID-policy - from the US: Dr. Robert Malone (inventor of the mRNA platform); tech entrepreneur Steve Kirsch who is putting his money where is mouth is in unrelenting advocacy; comedian Jimmy Dore - all are relentlessly beating the drums, trying to “wake people up” from the dream that all is good just as the government says it is. AND ALL THREE WERE VACCINATED. They then “saw the light” and noted the bigger picture, joining in with efforts world wide involving keen investigators documenting fraud, fudged data, financial gain and so much more.
Meanwhile, each week the URGENCY of needing to STOP THE SHOTS NOW cries out more and more loudly.
A recent post out of a smaller Australian city has a woman filming 92 fresh graves in the city cemetery after not having visited for a few months.
In a Thai preprint study involving 300 young people aged 13 to 18 taking their SECOND Pfizer shot, 29% (nearly one in THREE) end up with cardiovascular issues ranging from tachycardia (7.64%), shortness of breath (6.64%), palpitation (4.32%), chest pain (4.32%), and hypertension (3.99%). As well, ‘myopericarditis was confirmed in one patient after vaccination. Two patients had suspected pericarditis and four patients had suspected subclinical myocarditis.’ This would mean that for every 300 students in physical education classes, for example, one would need to be on the alert for 87 of them as possibly being at risk for a recurrence of these types of symptoms while engaged in sports or even at any point in their day.
And coming just days after the rollout of the 4th dose, young Canadian physicians have been dying in their sleep, from accelerated cancer or while swimming or running - both activities that raise the heart rate.
While the German Health Minister urges his citizens to get their 2nd booster, he skips out on that himself and lies about it, demonstrating his own lack of confidence in its safety.
And in the UK data was released that for every 126 people taking a COVID-19 vaccine product, 1 died within 60 days. https://expose-news.com/2022/08/09/1-in-246-people-die-shortly-after-covid-vaccination/
I don’t want to unsettle any further those reading this post with their own grief to carry. But for the moment, for the safety and wellbeing of the living - there is urgent work to do…
The good news is that in some US states bans on early treatment have been overturned. And that in Denmark, COVID-19 shots for the under 18s have been permanently stopped, while in Costa Rica, shots for all ages are now to be a thing of the past.
More good news: out of the public eye (shadow banned by Twitter, Instagram, etc. etc.) many, many, many excellent people are doing great work to highlight the issues, to rip away the fabric of lies and deceit that has cloaked reality for many of the past years and to prosecute the perpetrators of injustice.
Similar to the old days, modern day circles of citizens are gathering virtually, stitching together reams and reams of information, communally building knowledge to share with the public via websites, brochures, investigative reports, legal documents and the like.
The invitation for those grieving could be: what would your loved one have you do at this point in time?
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When good people do nothing, evil triumphs.
When good people gather to do something, evil needs to watch out!!